Commmitting to Conversations
27 04 2008I have to admit, I’m not very good at commenting. I love to read, I love to share, but I so rarely take the time to actually leave a comment on the posts I find interesting. It’s a very bad habit – especially because I know how much I enjoy receiving and reading comments left on my posts, and I know how important they are to the authors of the posts I read.
My problem is that it takes me so long to decide exactly what I want to say that I’m almost always rushing off to do something else by the time I’m ready to actually write (this is the same problem, by the way, that causes me to take 3 hours to write a post). I really wish I was quicker on the fingers, so to speak, but I’m not. I do a little too much thinking sometimes. What that really means is not that I shouldn’t comment, but that I should just write what first comes to mind and comment even more, later, if after thinking about I have something else to say.
The other part of the problem is that I’m a perfectionist and I actively avoid doing things that I may not do well at (unfortunately, this doesn’t mean that I do everything well, it just means that I don’t usually see it coming when I fail). Plus, I’m a bit of a control-freak, so if it’s something I can’t go back and edit, I take even longer to decide exactly how I want to phrase my comments.
And, of course, the final issue I have with commenting is that I already spend way too much time online. I’ve noticed that, this year in particular, I spend more time online, but still never seem to get around to what I really want to do (mostly because I’m busy processing the overwhelming amount of info I find interesting and relevant).
It’s frustrating, and it’s definitely making it hard to achieve any sort of balance that we’re all striving for. So, I’ve kind of let the commenting side of thing slide, in favor of consuming as much as possible in the time I have (this is also part of my tendency to hoard – usually related to food, but now, thanks to the convenience of tagging and filing, seems to apply to online information as well).
Well, now that I’ve cleared the air about my serious type-A personality issues, the bottom line is that I need (and want) to make more of a conscious effort to be a part of the conversation (even on my own blog, where it can take me ages to respond to comments as well. Ug.) A recent twittversation (is that a word?) with Sue Waters about the importance of commenting has refocused my efforts back on commenting. Plus, being the information hoarder that I am, I appreciate all of the easy ways to track online conversations that Sue outlines here.
The thing is, when I take the time to actually leave a comment, the content of the post sticks in my mind and pushes my thinking much more so than when I just read. I find that when I leave a comment, I’m more likely to see the connections between the various posts I read, and more likely to follow the links provided in the initial post, as well as read the blogs of the other commenters on the same post. (Ironically, this is one of the reasons I haven’t been doing so much commenting – since I always have too much to read, the last thing I want to do is get so interested in
a topic that I read more than I expected, right?). But in the end, that’s the whole point, isn’t it? Not just to consume, but to contribute as well. And not just to contribute your own experiences (which takes me long enough as it is), but to develop and contribute your own unique perspective on the connections between all that you read, watch, and hear.
So, I’ve worked my way right back around to the problem of balance again. Clearly, I need to take a lesson from our ISB elementary school goals for next year – it’s more important to focus and deepen learning than it is to just get all the information you can. Now, if only I could decide what to throw out and what to keep in… It’s all so interesting!
Calcutta Coffee House image from lecercle
Stuck image from TeeRish
Camera image from Thomas Hawk
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